A Few Things I Know About Love

In all ma years on earth and with all I've been through with the opposite sex, some facts will and won't ever change.. One of such facts is;
. We don't choose who we fall in love with!!
As tender and solemn the feeling of love is, you can't just look at an individual and say "I love that girl" and it'd just happen.. NO!!
In very many cases, it happens unexpectedly and one very true way to know you are in love with someone is the sudden funky confussion that comes to mind when you think of or talk of that person.
Love is more of a process, it requires a lotta conversations, sharing of thoughts and sometimes hanging out too depending on the individuals involved.
One other fact is;
. That you love someone like stupid doesn't mean that person should automatically love you back..
Love na by choice o… You spend money and take her places doesn't mean she owes you a thing. You did by your own will and even if she asked, you agreed to do it. No one forced you.. Same goes for the ladies too…
In all, we should perfectly or at least to. A reasonable extent get to know who we. Are dealing with except you just wanna fuck around… Love is pretty complicated but even in its complications, its the easiest feeling in the world once you get a grip on it. Its the same feeling that'd take you to almost a hundred percent and when its gone, bring you down to almost zero.. Sometimes, true love feels like a myth but in all the midst of that confussion, we can't deny that the good times always supercede the rough times.
Real love basically comes from good understanding between parties involved. Even the love of God is so. Once you know what you should do and shouldn't and keep an open line of communication, that love would blossom.
Above all, never hold on to misunderstandings because that's the number 1 love killer… Never end the day in a quarrel, always settle all before going to bed and see how full of life you'd wake up in the morning…
Just a few tips I've learnt from personal experiences… May not be applicable to all so bite me not if it doesn't work for you…
#Salute
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