I Am A Lesbian, Should I Come Out the Closet?

I am a lesbian, and I'm not proud of that fact, even though I haven't had the chance to be open about it.
I am struggling because of my culture and my religion.
I feel as though my sexuality will disappoint my family and friends, and that it will change their perception of me. I love my girlfriend.
In the beginning, she was fine with me hiding who I really am, but now she is starting to feel as though she is my "dirty little secret." I am finding it difficult to make her understand my situation.
She is demanding things I cannot give her. I cannot be open; it wouldn't be fair to my family.
This is putting a strain on our relationship and we have been arguing more frequently over petty things.
I'm not sure how to go about this, but I do know I want to be happy, and that she makes me happy.
I love being in her presence. What should I do?

2 comments:

My dear! All i hav to say to you is follow ur conscience, and remember that what ever u hide frm people most especially ur family member and u kno is not good, is not good. There‘s a time for change for everyone and i think its ur time to put an end to d act.

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